Right Conversation, Wrong Mindset

takerkid , 3/28/2024, 1:49AM(30 days ago) @Tiqui1999

Isn't it also incumbent on him to understand that they've only been an official couple since December? Thomas is ready to jump to marriage because he's been ready for ten plus years. Hope is just barely catching up. He has to give her time.

You are just never gonna acknowledge that this man has felt this way about her for over a decade, are you? Never gonna acknowledge how long he's felt this way. He has a right to give up no matter how much progress he finally made. It's a pure shame that you want Thope together only on her terms, and Thomas is nothing but a mannequin to you.

I did acknowledge that he felt this way for over a decade but is Hope not allowed time to catch up to where he's at? He's expecting her be where he's already been and that's just not how things work.

No, she's not because he's not allowed to see it as an eternity on his side. You won't let him.

Yeah, if she really loves him and wants a future with him, she sure the hell can be where he is. She was with Wyatt and Liam. But she's not this way with Thomas for a reason and you refuse to see that there's a valid reason she won't agree, and you won't see that Thomas has a right to not want to wait. SMHn You think everything should be about what hope wants on her timetable and her terms. No, because Thomas matters, too.

It's funny you bring up Wyatt. Hope referenced that debacle of a marriage today more or less saying that she didn't want to get ahead of herself like she did then. She's learning from that mistake. Maybe the fear of losing Thomas will cancel out that fear.

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