Right Conversation, Wrong Mindset

Tiqui1999 , 3/28/2024, 1:40AM(41 days ago) @takerkid

Thope had the conversation they been needing to have today but Thomas walked in with absolutely the wrong mindset. He was convinced by his sister that he was 100% right and Hope was 100% wrong, that turning down his proposal was rejecting him, that she didn't love him enough to marry him ever. He came in already intending to break up instead of have a dialogue with Hope. If he'd had someone who really cared about him in his ear instead of Steffy, they would've told him that Hope loved him, to have this conversation with Hope and hear her out. If you've already got your mind made up that things are a certain way you're not listening to the person trying to talk to you.

But he was willing to hear her out. He asked her some very pointed questions. He asked if she would ever be able to love him the way he loves her. She had no answer. He asked whether they were building a foundation together. She said she didn’t want things between them to change. He said that was the thing…things do change and progress, and he doesn’t know if she could *ever* be ready to marry him. She had no answer to that. He said it hurts too much to go on feeling this way. I don’t think Brooke convincing him to continue to wait for her daughter to make up her mind would be healthy for him. He’s doing the right thing by getting out before he gets sucked into a bad place again.

What do you mean? It’s all evil Steffy.
Steffy hates Hope but she loves Thomas and while she may be smug I don’t think she is trying to hurt him, all of the things Thomas said today were valid. And I am proud of him for prioritizing his well being.

No Steffy is trying to hurt Hope. She's manipulating Thomas to do it. What he said was valid but he wasn't really willing to hear Hope's side because Steffy already made up his mind for him.

Hope had not side! LOL

He asked the questions. She said nothing!

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