Does Steffy ever Reflect ...

Drangonfly , 6/27/2023, 1:16PM(310 days ago) @LadyMac- one person liked this

Throughout life, most people reflect back on their past and the wrong things they have done, which for the most part humbles them. I wonder if Steffy ever does this? If so, she would know she is not little Miss Perfect and stop blaming others for their faults and mistakes. Steffy really needs to step back, get off her high horse, and think of ways she can change to be a better person. There are so many flawed characters on B&B, yet Steffy acts as if she is the only one who has done nothing, ever. Even if sleeping with Bill (her father-in-law at the time) was her one and only transgression, that in itself trumps almost anything else others have done on this show IMO. She shows no remorse or guilt over anything. This is why I cannot stand the character of Steffy Forrester Finnegan.

I don’t feel a hurt and angry Steffy having a ONS with Bill who tracked her down at her grandfather’s trumps the months long emotional affair and Rome tryst with Thomas that was initiated by Hope, but that’s another topic. Either way, Steffy did actually show guilt and remorse — immediately after the Bill ONS and again this year. The morning after she woke up with a start, saw Bill and remembered what happened, and before running out of there called it wrong, a mistake, and something that never should have happened over his protests. When she told Finn about it this year she called it a “moment of weakness that I’ll always regret”. Steffy has every reason to be incensed over Hope’s actions and be disgusted by her now. Hope directly lied to Steffy’s face multiple times when she expressed concern about Thomas potentially backsliding if she showed interest in him (something that as of yesterday looks like selfish Hope couldn’t care less about). Steffy (and Kelly) lost Liam to Hope who had told Liam she was so much better than Steffy because she would never cheat on him like Steffy did….and yet Hope just did exactly that in all her “goodness, honesty and trustworthiness”. Despite having constant praise of her morality heaped on her by every other character on the show she has really always been a “me, me, me” girl who wants what she wants when she wants it without regard for anyone around her. Hopefully Thomas will finally see her for what she really is and never look back. Otherwise one day he too could find himself annulled at will like Liam did when Hope decided she wanted another man’s child. You never know. The only sure thing is that the saps around her will still be singing her praises.

I disagree that Hope had an emotional affair with Thomas. When she started to develop feelings for him she tried to fight them. It didn't seem like she had any intention to act on them until that moment at the Coliseum.

Steffy also had feelings for another man while married. Her husband's father. And she wound up acting on them. And it was a lot more than a kiss and a stroll through the city.

EXACTLY! Steffy was basically feeling Bill up for months - stroking him, rubbing him. That's a heck of a lot more than a grasping of hands.

Yes, I remember a lot of touchy feely scenes between Bill and Steffy. And then we came to find out that she had feelings for him all along. And it all culminated with her and the stallion engaging in some good old fashioned bedroom rodeo.

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"I love you more than anything or anyone in the world. And I want you by my side for the rest of my life."

"You're the love of my life."

Liam to Hope. Debate over.

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