Get "some" of Finn's ashes for Steffy?

Kammie , 6/13/2022, 7:32PM(685 days ago) @Tiqui1999

Actually, Yes it is proper depending on the family and the person cremated.... Sometimes it takes time to decide what to do with someone's ashes. Sometimes a person wanted to be spread in several locations.

My mother-in-law died in January and the family still hasn't decided what they want to do with her ashes.. For the moment she is in hubby's closet (and I want her out). My husband wants to take her to the Blue Ridge Parkway and spread them on an overlook... Her other son expects us to put her in her husband's grave, yet he expects us to pay to open the grave and the cost of the funeral home. (Her husband was in the process of divorcing her when he has a stroke in the lawyers office)....Brother also disowned her years ago and claimed she was dead to him and refused to come to her service. Personally I feel he gave up any rights to decide what to do with her. But that is not my circus. If he wants her buried he needs to travel the 500 miles and get the ashes and do whatever he can afford to do with them. The grave is 300 miles away..

On a side note: The woman tormented us about wanting to move in with us so I could take care of her. Well after 35 years ago, the woman got her wish. I want her out of my house.

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