Get "some" of Finn's ashes for Steffy?

Tiqui1999 , 6/13/2022, 4:16PM(685 days ago) @B&Bfan1980

Do people do that? I've heard of pour out a little liquor, but pour out a few ashes? Who does that?

Its not uncommon to split them up among family especially siblings. I have my dad's ashes in a necklace on my mantle and my sister has the rest in an urn.

Did you ask for some and your sister scooped it out? That's what Taylor did today. She asked Li to pour some out.

I mean, basically. Neither of us was prepared to deal with it right after the memorial service, so we just stored the ashes at the funeral home. 2-3 months later, I got it together and had the necklace made, and they just scooped a portion out for me. It sounds so morbid now.

Taylor asking Li for ashes is a little odd since they barely know each other. If anyone should ask, it would be Steffy, but the request itself is not that unusual.

I guess I'm assuming they think Finn is already in an urn at Li's and NOT at the funeral home. I think it might be more appropriate to ask what funeral home he's at than asking if he can get some ashes as if he's sitting on her shelf. That's weird to me. Aren't those things sealed once you get the final urn?

I didn't know you can cremate and store ashes at the funeral home. I have never had to deal with that. Yes, Steffy needs to be finding that stuff out, not Taylor just off the cuff, by the way, asking and saying how "wonderful" it would be to have "some" ashes. If you can store it and not have to deal with it until ready as in your case, then it's even worse that Taylor asked that so casually instead of letting Steffy handle it once Steffy is back. If it can stay months like that, then....yeah...should have waited.

Thanks for sharing that information because I didn't know ashes can just stay at the funeral home. I thought you get it done and have to take then. so thanks.

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