Thomas's Timetable is Wrong

ReturnedBBFan, 3/28/2024, 11:37AM(30 days ago) @Dreamgirl
edited by ReturnedBBFan, 3/28/2024, 11:45AM

That makes sense, I didn’t consider that he was counting all the prior years. Then he’s being even more unfair. It hasn’t even been a year since Rome and even less time that they’re in a relationship. I completely understand Thomas’s POV but I also get Hope’s. She’s the one I feel most sorry for in this situation, my heart is breaking for her. He didn’t give her more time. He had everything he wanted and he just threw it away.

You cannot continue giving someone more time when there's no guarantee they'll come around to your way of thinking eventually. If they decide down the line that they don't want to be married to you, then you've wasted all the time over them when you could have actually found someone who is on the same page and wants exactly what you want. And as I've said before, if Hope will come around to wanting to marry him, then she should agree to an engagement at least. But shes not doing that either. Which means there's no guarantee that she wants a future with Thomas. How is it fair for him to continue waiting then, and wasting all his time when he wants to get married? Let Hope find someone who is content with just having fun and doesn't want a commitment and let Thomas find what he wants. That's how real life works too.

I get that, but for her it’s been about three months and not years. Nothing is guaranteed and love is always taking a chance. You’re right it’s not fair to him, but giving it 6 more months wouldn’t have killed him. Don’t get me wrong I think he was right to leave but I think he owes her more grace. I mean he’s wanted her for years and it was just last yr she even looked at him romantically. I’m also taking into account the multiple chances Hope has afforded him.

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