Thomas's Timetable is Wrong

Dreamgirl, 3/28/2024, 10:01AM(31 days ago) @Drangonfly- one person liked this

That makes sense, I didn’t consider that he was counting all the prior years. Then he’s being even more unfair. It hasn’t even been a year since Rome and even less time that they’re in a relationship. I completely understand Thomas’s POV but I also get Hope’s. She’s the one I feel most sorry for in this situation, my heart is breaking for her. He didn’t give her more time. He had everything he wanted and he just threw it away.

You cannot continue giving someone more time when there's no guarantee they'll come around to your way of thinking eventually. If they decide down the line that they don't want to be married to you, then you've wasted all the time over them when you could have actually found someone who is on the same page and wants exactly what you want. And as I've said before, if Hope will come around to wanting to marry him, then she should agree to an engagement at least. But shes not doing that either. Which means there's no guarantee that she wants a future with Thomas. How is it fair for him to continue waiting then, and wasting all his time when he wants to get married? Let Hope find someone who is content with just having fun and doesn't want a commitment and let Thomas find what he wants. That's how real life works too.

I don't think that's disputed. The thing is, Thomas might be feeling differently about it all if Steffy wasn't in his ear. He must realize it's not unreasonable for Hope to not even have marriage on her mind so soon after a divorce...let alone get engaged.

I don't agree. He is the one that stormed out in anger when she rejected his proposal. In fact, I'd say Steffys reaction stems from how angry Thomas was. If he had been nonchalant about it I doubt Steffy would have pushed so hard for him to break up with Hope. Case in point, the first proposal. Thomas was ok with Hopes rejection. Steffy wasn't happy but she didn't interfere. By the same logic if Thomas had accepted Hope's rejection again, in my opinion Steffy would have stayed out of it again.

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