Finn, it’s not about Liam (General)

Steffy has not disrespected Finn

Finn is afraid. Adraid that he could lose Steffy. What he doesn´t see is that Liam would have no chance if Steffy wouldn´t give him one. So actually Finn doesn´t trust Steffy...and why should he? She cheated on him with Liam when they were not even married. Finn decided that Liam alone was guilty for what happened in Tequila Night. But deep down he knows Steffy wanted it too...

This is where I give Hope and Liam some kudos. Every time they are tempted to talk about Steffy and her brother, they quickly say let’s not talk them it’s about us. Liam kicked Thomas to the curb because Thomas is not Liam’s issue, it is Hope. Hope has said repeatedly Steffy is part of her issue but she’s focused on Liam’s behavior and attitude. Finn needs to learn that. He can’t stop Liam’s interest in Steffy. They have a child together. The question is whether Steffy is interested in Liam and what is Finn doing to put his marriage at risk. Finn is avoiding what’s at issue. His wife wants nothing to do with Sheila and she wants him to have nothing to do with Sheila but he’s curious about her. That has nothing to do with Liam.

Exactly. Sheila is the issue. Finn needs to find a way to get Steffy and the kids back home and Steffy doesn't feel safe until she knows that Sheila is not a threat. Therefore, Finn needs to solve the Sheila situation. Steffy and Liam will always interact because of Kelly. Finn knows that Steffy loves him. All this grandstanding with Liam is a waste of time and Finn just looks ridiculous.

Completely true because no matter what Liam does, only Steffy can cause her marriage too fast. And you wouldn't have to warn anybody about being around your life if your wife was on the same page as you are. Looks like Finn is going through the same thing Liam went through with Thomas being around. These men or around these women because that's what these women want.

This is where I give Hope and Liam some kudos. Every time they are tempted to talk about Steffy and her brother, they quickly say let’s not talk them it’s about us. Liam kicked Thomas to the curb because Thomas is not Liam’s issue, it is Hope. Hope has said repeatedly Steffy is part of her issue but she’s focused on Liam’s behavior and attitude. Finn needs to learn that. He can’t stop Liam’s interest in Steffy. They have a child together. The question is whether Steffy is interested in Liam and what is Finn doing to put his marriage at risk. Finn is avoiding what’s at issue. His wife wants nothing to do with Sheila and she wants him to have nothing to do with Sheila but he’s curious about her. That has nothing to do with Liam.

Exactly. Sheila is the issue. Finn needs to find a way to get Steffy and the kids back home and Steffy doesn't feel safe until she knows that Sheila is not a threat. Therefore, Finn needs to solve the Sheila situation. Steffy and Liam will always interact because of Kelly. Finn knows that Steffy loves him. All this grandstanding with Liam is a waste of time and Finn just looks ridiculous.

.What in the world is Finn supposed to do? He asked he to stay away and she has so far. They can get a restraining order & hire a private investigator to keep an eye on her but beyond that what can he do?

Sounds like the real snake is Steffy...I don´t like Liam one bit, but he is not obliged to admit to Finn he wants his wife...but Steffy would be obliged to admit to her husband that Liam actually made moves on her.

This is where I give Hope and Liam some kudos. Every time they are tempted to talk about Steffy and her brother, they quickly say let’s not talk them it’s about us. Liam kicked Thomas to the curb because Thomas is not Liam’s issue, it is Hope. Hope has said repeatedly Steffy is part of her issue but she’s focused on Liam’s behavior and attitude. Finn needs to learn that. He can’t stop Liam’s interest in Steffy. They have a child together. The question is whether Steffy is interested in Liam and what is Finn doing to put his marriage at risk. Finn is avoiding what’s at issue. His wife wants nothing to do with Sheila and she wants him to have nothing to do with Sheila but he’s curious about her. That has nothing to do with Liam.

I’m sorry but when a man tells another man he still loves his wife and tries to minimize his connection with her,, of course he’s gonna put him on notice. To add to that, Steffy betrayed Finn with Liam once and is keeping so much from Finn. Liam is a snake and Finn knows it.

Exactly.

This is where I give Hope and Liam some kudos. Every time they are tempted to talk about Steffy and her brother, they quickly say let’s not talk them it’s about us. Liam kicked Thomas to the curb because Thomas is not Liam’s issue, it is Hope. Hope has said repeatedly Steffy is part of her issue but she’s focused on Liam’s behavior and attitude. Finn needs to learn that. He can’t stop Liam’s interest in Steffy. They have a child together. The question is whether Steffy is interested in Liam and what is Finn doing to put his marriage at risk. Finn is avoiding what’s at issue. His wife wants nothing to do with Sheila and she wants him to have nothing to do with Sheila but he’s curious about her. That has nothing to do with Liam.

I’m sorry but when a man tells another man he still loves his wife and tries to minimize his connection with her,, of course he’s gonna put him on notice. To add to that, Steffy betrayed Finn with Liam once and is keeping so much from Finn. Liam is a snake and Finn knows it.

So let me see if I have this right. Steffy is keeping a secret and steffy is the one that cheated before but Liam is the snake?

The very idea that Finn has to tell Liam to stop sniffing around steffy is indicative of the fact that Finn believes Steffy just falls into Liam's arms. Finn's got serious problems if his wife is that easily swayed. Maybe Liam was just one stop in a long line of warning stops that included the mailman, the milkman, and the garbage man, but let's see who's not getting warned. The main person who needs to be warned. Sheila.

How is Liam using the Sheila situation to his advantage?

This is where I give Hope and Liam some kudos. Every time they are tempted to talk about Steffy and her brother, they quickly say let’s not talk them it’s about us. Liam kicked Thomas to the curb because Thomas is not Liam’s issue, it is Hope. Hope has said repeatedly Steffy is part of her issue but she’s focused on Liam’s behavior and attitude. Finn needs to learn that. He can’t stop Liam’s interest in Steffy. They have a child together. The question is whether Steffy is interested in Liam and what is Finn doing to put his marriage at risk. Finn is avoiding what’s at issue. His wife wants nothing to do with Sheila and she wants him to have nothing to do with Sheila but he’s curious about her. That has nothing to do with Liam.

I get what you are saying but I think it would be hard for anyone to ignore the fact that another man is interested in your wife. Really Finn shouldn't have gone to see him. He is insecure regarding Liam and he doesn't trust him and it shows.

That is like Liam and Hope with Thomas. Hope destroyed her marriage even after Liam begged her, was insecure and she lied/ gaslighted and cheated in the end. Thomas did all he wanted and Hope was the one willingly gave in.

The only person who can destroy sinn is Steffy or Finn. Liam can do all he wants but if Steffy gives in you know what happens. But I'm glad steffy rejected Liam and went home to her husband and didn’t destroy her marriage like Hope. Steffy now needs to come clean to her husband.