Thomas playing the hero

matisse, 8/29/2023, 9:51AM(264 days ago) @Lizzy54

Liam going to Hope to reconcile would be phony too as no one knows that Liam has been kissing and declaring his never ending love for Steffy these last weeks. Will he ever tell Hope? No, not even if they did reconcile.
Will Hope tell Liam about the sex? No, of course not, especially not if they reconcile.
But this is a marriage everyone wants to be saved? Because it´s so wonderful?

I am not one that thinks telling your spouse everything is a good idea. I think the burden of guilt that rests on a cheater, should not be unburdened on the spouse, just so the cheater can feel better, and then the spouse feels worse. If a person has cheated, and they absolutely want to make their marriage work, then what they did needs to be locked away and their burden to carry forever. Especially if their spouse wants the marriage to work, and is very happy to be reunited. To me, keeping that guilt to yourself and never cheating again, is a gift to that person you love, and that you betrayed. The only good that comes from confessing to cheating is YOU get to sleep better at night, but the innocent person you hurt, does not.

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