Really, Finn?? (General)

Debra, 5/25/2024, 9:21PM (263 days ago)

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.

Really, Finn??

DC, 5/25/2024, 9:54PM (263 days ago) @Debra

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.

EXACTLY, just open the door and ask FINN to LEAVE.

Really, Finn??

PatriotGirl @, 5/25/2024, 10:13PM (263 days ago) @Debra

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.

Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

Really, Finn??

BBDownunder, 5/25/2024, 10:24PM (263 days ago) @PatriotGirl

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/25/2024, 10:29PM (263 days ago) @BBDownunder- one person liked this

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart

Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.

Really, Finn??

PatriotGirl @, 5/25/2024, 11:48PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.

I haven't forgotten that he did that. But he has forgotten that his wife tried to save his life by calling 911 in spite of being threatened not to. And his egg donor so kindly rewarded her by putting a bullet in her and leaving her to die along side him. That she is a convicted felon who goes around packing a gun with a silencer and will fake her death by cutting off a toe to stay out of the prison she escaped from. That she tried to kill his real mom, Li, who actually did save his life after Sheila tried to end it in the alley. That his wife was forced to kill someone in their home because of Sheila's past destructive and despicable behavior. But yeah, let's have warm, fuzzy feelings for Sheila and believe that suddenly she is reformed and on the path to sainthood. lol

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 12:19AM (263 days ago) @PatriotGirl- one person liked this

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


I haven't forgotten that he did that. But he has forgotten that his wife tried to save his life by calling 911 in spite of being threatened not to. And his egg donor so kindly rewarded her by putting a bullet in her and leaving her to die along side him. That she is a convicted felon who goes around packing a gun with a silencer and will fake her death by cutting off a toe to stay out of the prison she escaped from. That she tried to kill his real mom, Li, who actually did save his life after Sheila tried to end it in the alley. That his wife was forced to kill someone in their home because of Sheila's past destructive and despicable behavior. But yeah, let's have warm, fuzzy feelings for Sheila and believe that suddenly she is reformed and on the path to sainthood. lol

One can’t help what they feel. And rather than talk through his feelings and help him understand them Steffy wants to force him to shut them down. Even a crappy psychiatrist like Taylor would agree that’s no way to get something or someone out of your system. If Steffy would only try to understand what Finn is feeling maybe he could work through his feelings for Sheila and they can all move on. And bonus, he wouldn’t have to turn to anyone else for understanding. Finn has been there unconditionally for Steffy. He has stood by her no matter what and taken her side even when she has very clearly been in the wrong. The least he deserves is the same grace from her even if she thinks he’s in the wrong. That's how relationships work. It’s not a one way street with one person always giving and giving and giving.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:40AM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Steffy can't take any chances with Sheila.So she gave Finn many outs, opporyunities to go and figure out his feelings for Sheila, incly=udig before signing the marriage license.He didn't.He wants to do it while forcing the psycho on her victims.This is plain emotional abuse

Really, Finn??

hopeyougogirl, 5/26/2024, 2:29PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


I haven't forgotten that he did that. But he has forgotten that his wife tried to save his life by calling 911 in spite of being threatened not to. And his egg donor so kindly rewarded her by putting a bullet in her and leaving her to die along side him. That she is a convicted felon who goes around packing a gun with a silencer and will fake her death by cutting off a toe to stay out of the prison she escaped from. That she tried to kill his real mom, Li, who actually did save his life after Sheila tried to end it in the alley. That his wife was forced to kill someone in their home because of Sheila's past destructive and despicable behavior. But yeah, let's have warm, fuzzy feelings for Sheila and believe that suddenly she is reformed and on the path to sainthood. lol


One can’t help what they feel. And rather than talk through his feelings and help him understand them Steffy wants to force him to shut them down. Even a crappy psychiatrist like Taylor would agree that’s no way to get something or someone out of your system. If Steffy would only try to understand what Finn is feeling maybe he could work through his feelings for Sheila and they can all move on. And bonus, he wouldn’t have to turn to anyone else for understanding. Finn has been there unconditionally for Steffy. He has stood by her no matter what and taken her side even when she has very clearly been in the wrong. The least he deserves is the same grace from her even if she thinks he’s in the wrong. That's how relationships work. It’s not a one way street with one person always giving and giving and giving.

Steffy doesn’t want a healthy marriage of equal partnership..with give and take on BOTH sides. This twit just wants someone she can boss around because the world revolves around her only..he’s not entitled to his feelings or thoughts. LOL.

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Shown on screen, Steffy blackmailed Bill. Yet, she told Ivy (and Liam too) that “blackmail is a crime”. Per Steffy’s own words, she IS a criminal cuz she has blackmailed.

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Really, Finn??

apbas88 @, 5/26/2024, 12:22AM (263 days ago) @PatriotGirl

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


I haven't forgotten that he did that. But he has forgotten that his wife tried to save his life by calling 911 in spite of being threatened not to. And his egg donor so kindly rewarded her by putting a bullet in her and leaving her to die along side him. That she is a convicted felon who goes around packing a gun with a silencer and will fake her death by cutting off a toe to stay out of the prison she escaped from. That she tried to kill his real mom, Li, who actually did save his life after Sheila tried to end it in the alley. That his wife was forced to kill someone in their home because of Sheila's past destructive and despicable behavior. But yeah, let's have warm, fuzzy feelings for Sheila and believe that suddenly she is reformed and on the path to sainthood. lol

Perfect post :star :star :star :star :star

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:37AM (263 days ago) @PatriotGirl

Exactly.He took a bullet for his wife but she took one for him as well and he's now trying to bring the psycho who shot these bullets right back into their lives,trying to force her on her victims.He can go to hell with the psycho, just leave Steffy and the kids alone

Really, Finn??

hopeyougogirl, 5/26/2024, 2:19PM (263 days ago) @PatriotGirl

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


I haven't forgotten that he did that. But he has forgotten that his wife tried to save his life by calling 911 in spite of being threatened not to. And his egg donor so kindly rewarded her by putting a bullet in her and leaving her to die along side him. That she is a convicted felon who goes around packing a gun with a silencer and will fake her death by cutting off a toe to stay out of the prison she escaped from. That she tried to kill his real mom, Li, who actually did save his life after Sheila tried to end it in the alley. That his wife was forced to kill someone in their home because of Sheila's past destructive and despicable behavior. But yeah, let's have warm, fuzzy feelings for Sheila and believe that suddenly she is reformed and on the path to sainthood. lol

Then Steffy should’ve testified against Sheila when she had her chance, blackmail or not! Then Steffy should’ve left Sheila alone and NOT gone over to Sheila’s home and violently attacked her either.

Weird, Steffy demands Finn to stay far away from Sheila, yet she herself can’t even do the same and stay away from big bad dangerous Sheila. Steffy is totally unhinged IMO.:drunk

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Shown on screen, Steffy blackmailed Bill. Yet, she told Ivy (and Liam too) that “blackmail is a crime”. Per Steffy’s own words, she IS a criminal cuz she has blackmailed.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:22PM (263 days ago) @hopeyougogirl

Steffy is trying wuth words to get Sheila to stay away from her family and Sheila resorty to deadly violence.The only time Steffy initiated the violence was when she punched Sheila at Deacon's the day she came back from rome

Really, Finn??

hopeyougogirl, 5/26/2024, 3:45PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

Steffy is trying wuth words to get Sheila to stay away from her family and Sheila resorty to deadly violence.The only time Steffy initiated the violence was when she punched Sheila at Deacon's the day she came back from rome

Actually no, Steffy initiated poking this bear multiple times. The day Sinn got shot Steffy went to Sheila..NOT the other way around. Then violent Steffy went to confront Sheila inside her home THREE times lately! Twice she punched Sheila, then again when Sheila was found alive. An unhinged Steffy can’t seemed to stay away from Sheila. Lmao!

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Shown on screen, Steffy blackmailed Bill. Yet, she told Ivy (and Liam too) that “blackmail is a crime”. Per Steffy’s own words, she IS a criminal cuz she has blackmailed.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 11:31PM (262 days ago) @hopeyougogirl

Yes Steffy went to Sheila and talked to Sheila.Told her that she won't let her fool anyone anymore with the claim that she changed.Steffy was leaving when Sheila took the gun, Steffy turned around and Sheila shot her.

The only time Steffy started any physical confrontation was the day she came back from rome and went to see Sheila and punched her.Sheila provokes Steffy.She refuses to atay away from Steffy's family.Steffy VERBALLY confronts her, Sheila uses deadly violence

Really, Finn??

Celeste @, 5/26/2024, 11:52PM (262 days ago) @rexitaliano

It wasn't the only time. It happened other two times, one very recently

Really, Finn??

hopeyougogirl, 5/27/2024, 1:16AM (262 days ago) @rexitaliano

Yes Steffy went to Sheila and talked to Sheila.Told her that she won't let her fool anyone anymore with the claim that she changed.Steffy was leaving when Sheila took the gun, Steffy turned around and Sheila shot her.

The only time Steffy started any physical confrontation was the day she came back from rome and went to see Sheila and punched her.Sheila provokes Steffy.She refuses to atay away from Steffy's family.Steffy VERBALLY confronts her, Sheila uses deadly violence

Actually, SHEILA was the one tried to leave after Steffy confronted her first, but Steffy followed Sheila into the dark alley. Lmao!

And Steffy was shown confronted Sheila inside Sheila's home MORE than once. Twice violent Steffy went over ended up punching her..then when Sheila was found alive, Steffy went over to confront her AGAIN. Steffy's the one that won't leave Sheila alone, yet she demands Finn to stay far away from Sheila.:drunk

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Shown on screen, Steffy blackmailed Bill. Yet, she told Ivy (and Liam too) that “blackmail is a crime”. Per Steffy’s own words, she IS a criminal cuz she has blackmailed.

Really, Finn??

GLFan, 5/25/2024, 11:56PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.

A wife and mother is “selfish and domineering” because she doesn’t want her family to have anything to do with their attempted murderer? That doesn’t sound a little odd to you?

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 12:23AM (263 days ago) @GLFan

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


A wife and mother is “selfish and domineering” because she doesn’t want her family to have anything to do with their attempted murderer? That doesn’t sound a little odd to you?

No, she’s selfish and domineering because she isn’t making any effort to try and understand where her husband is coming from. It’s either her way or the highway. And again, and I will never get tired of saying this, but Steffy could have put Sheila away for a long time. She made the decision not to. Selfishly, yes, because of her coward mother. She is lucky Finn is enough of a gentleman that he isn’t throwing that in her face.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:42AM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Sjeila already escaped jail; before and Deacon bribed the judge so no, Steffy couldn''t have put Sheila away.As she said, only dead Steffy's family will be safe from Sheila

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 12:24PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

Sjeila already escaped jail; before and Deacon bribed the judge so no, Steffy couldn''t have put Sheila away.As she said, only dead Steffy's family will be safe from Sheila

Lets not rewrite what really happened please. Otherwise there's really no point in discussions. There was the whole drama where Taylor was supposedly so tortured that she almost committed suicide because of Bills blackmail. Not tortured enough to tell the truth for her kids and grandkids sake of course. Steffy chose to save that pathetic miserable coward rather than keep her kids safe and let her mum go to jail. That action is on Steffy, Taylor and Finn although of course Finn was just doing what Steffy wanted.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:09PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

No rewrite.We had a scene with Deacon and the judge talking about the bribe.And like I said, even if SINN had sent Sheila to jail Sheila had already escaped jail before and would have again.Where is the rewrite?

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 2:12PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

No rewrite.We had a scene with Deacon and the judge talking about the bribe.And like I said, even if SINN had sent Sheila to jail Sheila had already escaped jail before and would have again.Where is the rewrite?

You don't know that Sheila would have escaped. And even if she did, Sinn would not have been responsible if they had done the right thing. They didn't do the right thing so now they are responsible. Actions, meet consequences.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:20PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

The result would have been the same, Sheila being out and a threat.They are responsible for not pressing charges but my point is that pressing charges and sending Sheila to jail wouldn't have secured Sheila remaining in jall.She already escaped once with the help of the prison gardien Sugar and with Deacon bribing the judge,, she could have done it again.

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 2:23PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

The result would have been the same, Sheila being out and a threat.They are responsible for not pressing charges but my point is that pressing charges and sending Sheila to jail wouldn't have secured Sheila remaining in jall.She already escaped once with the help of the prison gardien Sugar and with Deacon bribing the judge,, she could have done it again.

And my point is that's all hypothetical. We really don't know what would have happened because they didn't do the right thing. Steffy needs to grow up and accept the consequences for that action, especially since the person that she took such a huge risk for has already hightailed it out of town like the coward she has always been.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:27PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

We do know given Sheila's history and Deacon bribing the judge.

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 2:37PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

We do know given Sheila's history and Deacon bribing the judge.

Nope. We do not know what would have happened had Sinn done the right thing. You may know and that's fine. But the show has not shown what would have happened if Sinn did the right thing because they didn't do the right thing. If you would like to accept hypotheticals as fact that is completely your prerogative.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:39PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Fact:Sheila escaped jsil before
Fact:Deacon bribed a judge to get her off the hook

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 3:12PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

Fact:Sheila escaped jsil before
Fact:Deacon bribed a judge to get her off the hook

Still doesn't guarantee the future. I can't carry on a discussion with you if you insist on treating hypotheticals as facts so I'm done here.

Really, Finn??

Celeste @, 5/26/2024, 2:43PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Lately, on this board, hypothesis are facts, facts are denied, and stuff is constantly made up. Being a bully is seen as having a huge caring empathetic heart, being harrassed in your own home is called not leaving people alone and a story of being a second that have to lie, scheme and manipulate to get someone attention is called grand love story where the lying, scheming person is the one chased.
All is relative and words lose their real meaning.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:45PM (263 days ago) @Celeste

Steffy is no bully and does have a caring empathic heart. She's also fiervely protective of her loved ones and would defend them with everything she has

Really, Finn??

Celeste @, 5/26/2024, 2:46PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano- one person liked this

Steffy is a witch with a heart made of stone. Even a rag dog has more kindness.

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 3:16PM (263 days ago) @Celeste- one person liked this

Lately, on this board, hypothesis are facts, facts are denied, and stuff is constantly made up. Being a bully is seen as having a huge caring empathetic heart, being harrassed in your own home is called not leaving people alone and a story of being a second that have to lie, scheme and manipulate to get someone attention is called grand love story where the lying, scheming person is the one chased.
All is relative and words lose their real meaning.

It seems like the twilight zone for sure. And Liam is the better option against Finn who has been nothing but loyal to Steffy and done whatever she has wanted him to do till now. He has saved her grandad's life, he helped keep her mother out of jail, he didn't so much as raise an eyebrow when he heard about Stills ONS. And he is written off as the worst person ever simply because he chooses to give Sheila the benefit of the doubt. A good, loyal, husband is tossed to the side in favour of a weasel who has never, ever put Steffy first, simply because he is a good person, lol. It's mind boggling.

Really, Finn??

Sammy @, 5/26/2024, 4:43PM (262 days ago) @Celeste

Lately, on this board, hypothesis are facts, facts are denied, and stuff is constantly made up. Being a bully is seen as having a huge caring empathetic heart, being harrassed in your own home is called not leaving people alone and a story of being a second that have to lie, scheme and manipulate to get someone attention is called grand love story where the lying, scheming person is the one chased.
All is relative and words lose their real meaning.

Great and true post :dance3

Really, Finn??

GLFan, 5/26/2024, 12:23PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl
edited by GLFan, 5/26/2024, 12:27PM

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


A wife and mother is “selfish and domineering” because she doesn’t want her family to have anything to do with their attempted murderer? That doesn’t sound a little odd to you?


No, she’s selfish and domineering because she isn’t making any effort to try and understand where her husband is coming from. It’s either her way or the highway. And again, and I will never get tired of saying this, but Steffy could have put Sheila away for a long time. She made the decision not to. Selfishly, yes, because of her coward mother. She is lucky Finn is enough of a gentleman that he isn’t throwing that in her face.

She actually has said she understands he has complicated feelings about his birth mother, to Finn directly and to both Liam and Ridge. But the bottom line is she can’t have Sheila be part of their lives and she told him that before she signed the marriage certificate. If Finn feels he does want his attempted murderer and kidnapper in his life then he needs to own that. He needs to tell Steffy that their attempted murderer is as important or more important to him than her instead of repeatedly lying to her, and they need to acknowledge that this is an irreconcilable difference between them.

Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 2:16PM (263 days ago) @GLFan

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


A wife and mother is “selfish and domineering” because she doesn’t want her family to have anything to do with their attempted murderer? That doesn’t sound a little odd to you?


No, she’s selfish and domineering because she isn’t making any effort to try and understand where her husband is coming from. It’s either her way or the highway. And again, and I will never get tired of saying this, but Steffy could have put Sheila away for a long time. She made the decision not to. Selfishly, yes, because of her coward mother. She is lucky Finn is enough of a gentleman that he isn’t throwing that in her face.


She actually has said she understands he has complicated feelings about his birth mother, to Finn directly and to both Liam and Ridge. But the bottom line is she can’t have Sheila be part of their lives and she told him that before she signed the marriage certificate. If Finn feels he does want his attempted murderer and kidnapper in his life then he needs to own that. He needs to tell Steffy that their attempted murderer is as important or more important to him than her instead of repeatedly lying to her, and they need to acknowledge that this is an irreconcilable difference between them.

This I agree with. Finn needs to take a stand instead of repeatedly giving in to Steffy if he doesn't really agree with her. That being said, he can still see Sheila as long as he keeps her away from Steffy and the kids. I haven't seen where he's trying to force Steffy to have a relationship with Sheila? All Steffy has to do is give a little but draw the line at Sheila coming to the house or anywhere near her children. Her husband is an adult and deserves the right to make decisions for himself the way he sees fit.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:26PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Steffy told Finn that the danger is back and he told her there is no danger , sheila changed.Finn thinks it's perfectly ok to allow Sheila near him and his family even told Hope that he wants sheacon to remain engaged long enough for him to get Steffy to accept Sheila.He became dangerous himself since he refuses to see the danger sheila is or he sees t and doesn't giuve a freaking dam. He is trying to force her on her victims and this is emotional abuse.

Really, Finn??

Celeste @, 5/26/2024, 2:27PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

The way Steffy forces Thomas on his victim. That was emotional abuse too.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:40PM (263 days ago) @Celeste

Steffy never forced Thomas on Hope.It was Hope's idea to have him back on the line and it was Hope who threw herself at him, so nop

Really, Finn??

Celeste @, 5/26/2024, 2:45PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

No go back watch the show. Steffy put Thomas working on HFTF as the condition to not cancel the line. It's blackmail.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:48PM (263 days ago) @Celeste

That was after Hope had suggested it first, Steffy refused, had Eric and Xende try.They failed .Only then, Steffy gave Hope the choice.Thomas or canceling the line.And Thomas managed to keep it professional, respect Hope's boundaries, focusing on his job and kid.Hope's ego couldn't take it

Really, Finn??

Celeste @, 5/26/2024, 3:01PM (263 days ago) @rexitaliano

That was after Hope had suggested it first, Steffy refused, had Eric and Xende try.They failed .Only then, Steffy gave Hope the choice.Thomas or canceling the line.And Thomas managed to keep it professional, respect Hope's boundaries, focusing on his job and kid.Hope's ego couldn't take it

Thomas or cancelling the line is not a choice, it is blackmail.
What it someone tells Steffy, Sheila or Forrester creation?

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 11:32PM (262 days ago) @Celeste

How is it related? Eric and Zende tried to design for FC and failed, so Thomas is teh oen who could save it.Iy;s not blackmail it;s facts.It is a choice

Really, Finn??

Celeste @, 5/26/2024, 11:51PM (262 days ago) @rexitaliano
edited by Celeste, 5/27/2024, 12:22AM

No choice. Steffy, in hope's shoes, would have never accepted to choose between her line and working close to the man that kept her baby dead to her. Stating otherwise is just hypocrate.

Really, Finn??

GLFan, 5/26/2024, 3:12PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


A wife and mother is “selfish and domineering” because she doesn’t want her family to have anything to do with their attempted murderer? That doesn’t sound a little odd to you?


No, she’s selfish and domineering because she isn’t making any effort to try and understand where her husband is coming from. It’s either her way or the highway. And again, and I will never get tired of saying this, but Steffy could have put Sheila away for a long time. She made the decision not to. Selfishly, yes, because of her coward mother. She is lucky Finn is enough of a gentleman that he isn’t throwing that in her face.


She actually has said she understands he has complicated feelings about his birth mother, to Finn directly and to both Liam and Ridge. But the bottom line is she can’t have Sheila be part of their lives and she told him that before she signed the marriage certificate. If Finn feels he does want his attempted murderer and kidnapper in his life then he needs to own that. He needs to tell Steffy that their attempted murderer is as important or more important to him than her instead of repeatedly lying to her, and they need to acknowledge that this is an irreconcilable difference between them.


This I agree with. Finn needs to take a stand instead of repeatedly giving in to Steffy if he doesn't really agree with her. That being said, he can still see Sheila as long as he keeps her away from Steffy and the kids. I haven't seen where he's trying to force Steffy to have a relationship with Sheila? All Steffy has to do is give a little but draw the line at Sheila coming to the house or anywhere near her children. Her husband is an adult and deserves the right to make decisions for himself the way he sees fit.

That would be nice but it’s a fairy tale when it comes to Sheila and Steffy realizes that. As I posted elsewhere she thinks the Sinn family is her family, Kelly is her granddaughter, and she “loves” Steffy. Gullible Finn gobbles this up. Give Sheila an inch and she’ll take a mile, and Finn will stand there with that deer in the headlights look on his face.

Really, Finn??

PatriotGirl @, 5/26/2024, 3:13PM (263 days ago) @Dreamgirl

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart


Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.


A wife and mother is “selfish and domineering” because she doesn’t want her family to have anything to do with their attempted murderer? That doesn’t sound a little odd to you?


No, she’s selfish and domineering because she isn’t making any effort to try and understand where her husband is coming from. It’s either her way or the highway. And again, and I will never get tired of saying this, but Steffy could have put Sheila away for a long time. She made the decision not to. Selfishly, yes, because of her coward mother. She is lucky Finn is enough of a gentleman that he isn’t throwing that in her face.


She actually has said she understands he has complicated feelings about his birth mother, to Finn directly and to both Liam and Ridge. But the bottom line is she can’t have Sheila be part of their lives and she told him that before she signed the marriage certificate. If Finn feels he does want his attempted murderer and kidnapper in his life then he needs to own that. He needs to tell Steffy that their attempted murderer is as important or more important to him than her instead of repeatedly lying to her, and they need to acknowledge that this is an irreconcilable difference between them.


This I agree with. Finn needs to take a stand instead of repeatedly giving in to Steffy if he doesn't really agree with her. That being said, he can still see Sheila as long as he keeps her away from Steffy and the kids. I haven't seen where he's trying to force Steffy to have a relationship with Sheila? All Steffy has to do is give a little but draw the line at Sheila coming to the house or anywhere near her children. Her husband is an adult and deserves the right to make decisions for himself the way he sees fit.

Sheila will never be happy with just Finn in her life.You give her an inch she wants a mile. She will push until she can get her hands on Hayes too. Ideally she won't be happy until she is a part of the Forrester family again, hence the reason why she never cared about Finn until he married a Forrester and trespassed onto Eric's property, skulking around in the shadows, on their wedding day.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 11:35PM (262 days ago) @PatriotGirl

True.Give her Hayes and Finn, she will lose interest in them because they were a mean to an end, getting her into the family she terrorized for 3 decades.Finn and Hayes out of that family, they are useless to her

Really, Finn??

PatriotGirl @, 5/25/2024, 10:49PM (263 days ago) @BBDownunder

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.


Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart

I'm not and I'm not cutting him any slack. Steffy is fighting a losing battle.

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:43AM (263 days ago) @PatriotGirl

Yes sge is but soon will realize it and walk.The sooner the better because he's dangerous

Really, Finn??

rexitaliano, 5/26/2024, 2:34AM (263 days ago) @BBDownunder

Only for Sheila.He thinks she deserves a 2nd chance but Thomas is irredeemable

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Really, Finn??

Julia Andrew, 5/26/2024, 4:15AM (263 days ago) @Debra

AGREED!
Finn is horrible!
Steffy shouldn't be with him.
ANYONE, but really ANYONE is better.
I continue to hope the writers make Hayes Liam's son!
They are pushing for a STEAM reunion anyway...
So I say: Why not...
Finn deserves to end up with Sheila and Deacon only. Let him be "family" with them.

Really, Finn??

Barbybo, 5/26/2024, 6:58AM (263 days ago) @Debra

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.

Finn is now a wuss..

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