Really, Finn??

Dreamgirl, 5/26/2024, 12:19AM(264 days ago) @PatriotGirl- one person liked this

Sheila shot you point blank. When Steffy was calling 911, she threatened Steffy’s life, intending for you to die, to save herself. She shot your wife point blank, picked your pockets and left you for dead on trash bags in an alley. When she found out Steffy survived, she made two attempts to finish her off. When she found you alive, she ran your mother off the road and held you captive. For most people this would be a deal breaker, especially given that she tried to kill the woman you claim to love above all else. But not you Finn. You actually want your wife to accept the woman that tried to kill her. You were cradling her, putting your arm around her, calling her mom. You’ve betrayed every promise you made and now Sheila got the win.

Steffy needs to kick your lying ass to the curb, change the locks and never look back.

Great post. The man has the IQ of a gnat when it comes to Mommy Sheila. Time to send him packing.

im torn, he has a soft heart

Apparently that's the biggest crime, lol. No one remembers that he took a bullet for his selfish, domineering wife. The only man on this show to have done so. He should have just saved himself.

I haven't forgotten that he did that. But he has forgotten that his wife tried to save his life by calling 911 in spite of being threatened not to. And his egg donor so kindly rewarded her by putting a bullet in her and leaving her to die along side him. That she is a convicted felon who goes around packing a gun with a silencer and will fake her death by cutting off a toe to stay out of the prison she escaped from. That she tried to kill his real mom, Li, who actually did save his life after Sheila tried to end it in the alley. That his wife was forced to kill someone in their home because of Sheila's past destructive and despicable behavior. But yeah, let's have warm, fuzzy feelings for Sheila and believe that suddenly she is reformed and on the path to sainthood. lol

One can’t help what they feel. And rather than talk through his feelings and help him understand them Steffy wants to force him to shut them down. Even a crappy psychiatrist like Taylor would agree that’s no way to get something or someone out of your system. If Steffy would only try to understand what Finn is feeling maybe he could work through his feelings for Sheila and they can all move on. And bonus, he wouldn’t have to turn to anyone else for understanding. Finn has been there unconditionally for Steffy. He has stood by her no matter what and taken her side even when she has very clearly been in the wrong. The least he deserves is the same grace from her even if she thinks he’s in the wrong. That's how relationships work. It’s not a one way street with one person always giving and giving and giving.

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